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Heavenly Father, transgenderism has become a cult in this country. Expose the lies and propaganda that has become popular in our culture and reinstate Your law in our hearts.
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The Abandonment of Reality and the Embrace of the “True Self”

* The author of this true account, a wife and mother of three, wishes to remain anonymous. All names in this account have been changed.

Last year, my brother Josh, a 37-year-old married father with five kids under the age of 9, announced he was becoming a woman.

His wife, in turn, announced that she not only plans to stay married, but that she is “more proud of him” than she’s ever been. Actually, she said she is “more proud of her than she’s ever been.” That’s because my brother Josh changed his name to Melissa and now requires everyone to use “she/her” pronouns when referring to him. If the grandparents refuse to do this, they have been threatened with limited access to their grandchildren.

My brother and sister-in-law claim that through several years of therapy, they came to realize the truth: that Melissa was Josh’s “true self” all along.

Thus, my tall, handsome, muscular brother began taking strong female hormones that transformed him into a different person. His facial hair stopped growing. He grew breasts instead. As part of his “social transition” he began wearing dresses, wigs, heels, and makeup in public. He will have to stay on female hormones until the day he dies. He refuses to answer to the name Josh now—the only name anyone’s known him as for almost four decades. He says Josh is dead. There was even some type of symbolic “burial ceremony” to say goodbye to Josh once and for all. Unfortunately, I didn’t get invited to that. Nor did my parents. No one sent us flowers. No one dropped off a casserole.

Basically, the best way to describe what happens when a loved one decides to swap genders is this: It’s as though someone murders your loved one and then the murderer gets extremely angry if you won’t let them take the victim’s place in your family.

My family and I are now called “transphobic” for not embracing Melissa with open arms.

When I told my brother, “I’m sorry…I love Josh, but I cannot move forward with this new Melissa girl,” he simply texted me: “So long then.” So long to almost 40 years of relating as siblings. So long to weekly dinners at my parents’ home. So long to our kids growing up with their cousins. But I do not fault him or his wife for this. They are victims. They have been brainwashed by the trans cult. It all began with a therapist’s advice and ended with lifelong payments to the trans medical machine. There’s lots of money to be made in telling people to become the opposite gender. Lots.

Oddly, even in this #MeToo era, American culture now tells me that my brother—who’s spent 37 years as a Caucasian male—now deserves the same rights and respects that I, an actual woman, deserve. I’m a woman who’s been sexually harassed hundreds of times in my 40 years of life. My brother was a star high school athlete who had his pick of girls to date. While I was fending off unwanted stares and groping hands of males in my 20s, he was enjoying all the perks of being just such a male in the 21st century. While I was giving birth to three babies who will grow up to be women in my 30s, he was joining the fight to get legal access to their public restrooms.

See, if my brother was claiming to be an alien or a time traveler instead of a woman, our culture would never support it. But since it’s 2019 and the denial of reality when it comes to biological sex is en vogue—countless people are blindly embracing Melissa as my brother’s “True Self.” Even though reality clearly proves my brother is male, people unabashedly deny reality out of fear of being called “intolerant.” They’re terrified of being lumped in with all the “Trump-supporting, LGBTQ haters.” They say things like, “If Josh tells us that this Melissa is actually his ‘true self,’ who are we to argue?”

The “True Self” has become the final measure of all things. Every book we open, every show we watch, every internet meme we read suggests we can all attain greater levels of health and peace through a deeper understanding and expression of our “True Self.”

It sounds so right. How can it be wrong?

In his book The Road to Character, David Brooks explains that back in the day, there was something called moral realism—a worldview that put an emphasis on human sin and human weakness. Biblical figures like David and Moses were seen as great leaders who were also deeply flawed. Augustine and the early church fathers talked constantly about the depravity of sin and the need for grace. Then around the 18th century, moral realism found a rival in moral romanticism. Romantics like Jean-Jacques Rousseau emphasized the inherent goodness of man and rejected the concept of sin.

Fast forward to the 20th century when books like Rabbi Joshua Liebman’s New York Times best seller Peace of Mind (published in 1946) urged people toward a new morality based on the idea that you should never repress any part of yourself as sinful. Instead, you should “love yourself” and not be afraid of your hidden impulses. Humanist psychologists ran with this idea. They began arguing that the primary problem for humans was no longer sin, but rather the fact that we weren’t fully accepting of ourselves exactly as God made us. This line of thinking led to the advent of the self-esteem movement in 1969, and the core of that movement morphed into what Charles Taylor calls “The Culture of Authenticity.” That’s the culture we’re contending with today.

The central belief of the culture of authenticity goes something like this:

At the center of every one of us is a Golden Figure known as “the True Self.” The True Self can always be trusted. You know that what you’re doing is right when you feel an inner peace inside your True Self. You know that what you’re doing is wrong when you do not feel inner peace inside your True Self.

Because the True Self is inherently good, there is no sin to be found in it. Thus, sin is now found only in the external structures of society that seek to repress the True Self or stop it from fully emerging.

Previous generations believed the development of character and the road to salvation came by struggling against the desires of the True Self. This is why traits like selflessness and self-sacrifice were considered most admirable. But not anymore. Our culture now has a new “salvation”—with the True Self playing the role of redeemer.

(Excerpt from the Family Research Council. Article by Lisa.)

 

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Donna Nelson
November 20, 2019

Donna (Canada)
We know what the Word of God says and we stand on the Word and proclaim the Word and agree with the Word and one day every knee will bow and tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord. Jesus in the wilderness being tempted by satan said, “it is written,” though shalt not tempt the Lord Thy God, it is written. God says in His Word to remind Him of His Word and we do Lord. Thank You Lord that when we pray the Word, the angels in Psa. 103:20 take the Word of God and perform it! Oh how marvelous You are Lord! \0/

Verna
November 19, 2019

And Satan told Eve that she could be like God knowing good and evil.
Gen. 3:5
The lie is still the lie and men still believe they not only like God, but God and Satan laughs and tells more lies and people believe the lies and hate the truth.
Dear God in heaven help us. We are all born sinners and but for your grace, there go I. Please open the ears and eyes of those we love so dearly. Deliver them from the vile evil which is so prevalent in the world today. Keep us from getting discouraged and don’t let us give up. You are still in Control. Thank you Jesus.

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Rita
November 19, 2019

Lord, you overcame the forces of darkness from where this lie comes and I proclaim your Victory and
Sovereignty over it. May the lie shrivel up and lose its influence and power, in Jesus’ name, Amen.

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shirley
November 19, 2019

It is sad that people get paid to encourage a lie and worse yet that some people believe them .
It is obvious that you are either male or female. When children have this twisted belief taught to them and no one to stand up to protect them, this is what happens. Let us pray that grandparents become more active in their
grandchildren’s lives and teacher’s refuse to teach this lie.

May God have mercy on this nation.

Nancy P.
November 18, 2019

If this is a touchy-feely generation now – I am guilty of one feeling imparticular – this makes me sick. Literally. Father, help us, Your people know how to pray against this perversion, this sin! It is sickening and You are truly wonderful because You love us no matter what – except for that one thing – sin! Please help us to repent from this terrible thing that has permeated our society and world so much so that our demise is right in front of us and seemingly here to stay until Your return as You have promised. Protect our loved ones from this sin and save us from ourselves! In Jesus Name, amen!

Ginny Stanton
November 18, 2019

Our wonderful Father of all creation… Forgive us for worshipping self, all things you made are right and wonderfully made , we agree that this movement called transgenderism will be brought to your Light Jesus and revealed for what it is the worship of Self… Amen, bless us with your truth and rightousnes we pray

Candee Hopkins
November 18, 2019

And THIS is why we must pray…FERVENTLY!

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